How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 03:49

How does one succeed in life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Ask yourself:

I want to have anal sex, but my wife refuses. What do I do?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Which job has the potential to become rich easily?

What I need from you?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What is a common thought that keeps people up at night? Why do some people experience this?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What firsthand information do you have on prisoner-on-prisoner sexual abuse/rape?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why did Democrats echo that Joe Biden was greater than FDR and should be put on Mt Rushmore? Why did Democrats vote for Biden blindly in the primaries and deny he was mentally impaired? Was it the lying media, or are Democrats ignorant and gullible?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Does not procrastinate.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What symptoms did you notice before being diagnosed with cancer?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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That's it for today.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why does an older married man turn bisexual?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?